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Reilley1
I'm having a hard time writing this because it's difficult to talk about someone who is a friend and indeed I see as my brother.

Scot Britehaupt is back in jail. The details at this point are not up to discussion.

As one of his friends and supporters I feel the obligation to tell the BMX community before the rumour mills starts and before all the nay-sayers jump in with the "I told you so."

Many in his close circle of friends figured that Scot was going to end up there again. But please understand that as a friend, you want to desperately believe so bad that maybe this time it would work out

Scot has let his Jamie, family, friends, the BMX community and more importantly himself down.

I can't really say more than to ask the community to please withold judgement and keep the "mean" remarks to a minimum. It does nothing but makes us look judgemental when we do.

For those of you who are religious, pray for him. Send good vibes for him for those who are not religious.

Peace Cats

Reilley Out
parabulla
Damn....
Cash Matthews
Reilley and Friends:

This is indeed sad, but not unexpected news. I have known Scot for over 30 years now. Rick, you did a great thing in supporting him unconditionally, as that is what true friends do. But true friends also seek what is best.I have turned that over to God and will keep Scot in my prayers.

Cash Matthews
kcmobmx
Scot you are a legend in my book and there is not a thing more I have to say.
jakerooni
If you don't want people talking about it or him why on earth would you post it on a public forum like this?? Your only asking for trouble doing such things. Not a very wise move I think.
Gary Haselhorst
Reilley1, He is lucky to have you as a friend. Prayers to you Scot!!!!

Your friend,
Gary
Gary Haselhorst
Cash.

You too!

Peace Brothers!!
mikkopeters
Sorry to hear the sad news. Scot and his family are in our thoughts.
Cash Matthews
Jake:

Scot came here in a very open way asking for the help of our members. Many people gave time, money, and effort. It was from those very public requests for help that this membership was solicited to help Scot. Many were already helping him behind the scenes as well. Rick was also one of the folks who publicly spoke for Scot and helped solicit letters, help, etc from this membership. It was done in a very public way.

Rick's notice above at first is his obligation to inform the public of the outcome of the request that Scot himself made. I think Rick did the right thing here by putting himself on the line. I know Rick Gaytan, and he is a noble dude. You might also consider this a preemptive post in that this news WILL make the internet pretty quick and it may not be as pretty as what Rick was able to accomplish.

We all need to get to know Scot, the 50 something man. He was truly a legend and an icon for BMX. Right now he truly needs a miracle.

[ October 07, 2006, 08:23 PM: Message edited by: Cash Matthews ]
t nile
This is a black day. When I wrote a letter for Scot last time, I wrote that I thought it was his last chance, I believed it then, & I believe it now. Addiction is a terrible thing. It affects many of us, directly, or indirectly. And any of us who have had to deal with it, know that it is one of the most heartbreaking things you can endure. To all you who want to chime in about "knowing" this would happen, save it, please, we don't need to hear it.
t nile
Also, I hope if Jamie reads this, she would know that if there is any way I can help HER, I would gladly do so. Our prayers are with you Jamie, and also with Scot.
GFR Industries
Recovery is a life long process, he'll need to pick himself back up again & again & again. It's when he decides not to it's all over.

What outsiders think doesn't matter as long and as he doesn't hurt others (I mean by driving OWI, commiting crimes against people etc) with his decisions I'll wish him good luck in picking himself up again.
Cash Matthews
Let me add another thing you should know about Rick "Reilley1" Gaytan. He took it on himself to call and visit with Jamie about all of this and to offer help and assistance. He is a man who is a true friend and I commend him on his acts of kindness. She does need our kind thoughts and prayers.
joe cool on a Phaze One
Thoughts and prayers go to Scot!!!
Evan
Dang, this news just kills me. He seemed to be doing so well.

I have only good vibes to send and I truly and sincerely wish only the best for Scot and Jamie.

Exorcise those demons, OM. You're tougher than them all -- don't let them keep getting the better of you.
retrodave
You know . I hate too be the *** hole here. But wake the efen up people. He stole from his own fam. Ask that beautiful lady jamie about her charm braclete. Yea bash me if you want. I have made my changes. HE EFED UP. I have no respect for someone that uses other people .../... i LOVE MY GIRLFRIEND . Her name is jenn. I owe my future too her. My world has changed, and I owe it too her,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,.............
eric hestermann
this makes me sick, i have talked to scot a few times since the last time he was in jail, had told him i was clean and sober for almost five years, thought he had it licked, and was doing well, also paid him 150 bucks for a poster that im still waiting for, now i have to wonder what the heck he did with that money, man i thought he was done with this crap, this news is killing me, just cant support this guy any more, lost all trust in this man...
djbdb
Now I'm glad I never wrote that letter...something told me not to...

Jaime needs our prayers - not Scot...we have all done as much as we can for him - he must do the rest, which he obviously, at this time, is not interested in doing.

Good luck Scot, you're gonna need it...
QuicksilverBMX
Sometimes the wall is just too big for some people to climb over.
quote:
also paid him 150 bucks for a poster that im still waiting for
Sometimes its best to wait until the fire is completely out otherwise you might get burnt.
I just hope he doesnt spend too long in jail, I wouldnt wish that upon anyone.
Criscobath
I don't know Scot, so maybe my words are not needed. I've read from the sidelines and hoped for the best, w/o commenting.

I wish Scot and all who know him, the best. Life serves up bad times, sometimes at your own hands and sometimes at the hands of the ones you love.

Rick, I'm sorry you had to be the bearer of bad news. It takes a man w/ big shoulders to carry this and deliver the news no one wanted to hear. It takes even bigger shoulders to stand by your friend when others are ready to throw stones at him. You have my respect.

Scot, I'm new to this praying thing, but I'll put you and your family near the top of my list w/ my father, brother, and grandfather.

It's never too late to change, buddy. Keep your chin up.
Scot OM Breithaupt
Hi everyone,

I must Thank you for everything! I truly thought with all your support and the proper help for Scot this would bring my soul mate home to me.

I'm grateful that at least GOD gave me the time to love someone very much even if it wasnt for the next fifty years. Not everyone finds the one they really love. I did. So I am grateful for that.
I am sorry so so sorry!

I appreciate you all!

As of right now I am hurting! The day Scot went away I found out my Mom has cancer. I thought that life couldnt get any worse but really it could and I need to be thankful for what I do have and not what I dont.

I hope and pray that Scot wants the help one day that will release him of the devil! Im very tired and need to focus now on my Mother and my kids!

I will miss you all!

Rick, Thank you for posting this. You are a true friend!

Love,

Jamie, Scoty jr, Brandon, Andrew, Jon Jon, and my sweet Breanna
forman
this is just terrible ,
TIM
i can't think of a single thing to say. nothing at all...
Faust Wurstkotzenhauser
Wow... this really sucks... badly.

Very sad news indeed!
Ted Carl
quote:
i can't think of a single thing to say. nothing at all...
I've opened it 4 times and come to the same exact conclusion and exited it.

...Stupified.
Keep_It_Warm
My ONLY thoughts are with Jaime, her children, and her mother. Be strong.
pwh4130
Rick- thanks for the word. It's no fun bearing bad news or watching a friend put himself through that kind of hell.

Jamie-My heart goes out to you, the kids and your mother. I'm so sorry you have to go through this. I have seen friends go through it and I can't imagine losing a spouse like that.

Scot- I don't know what to say other than...please take care of yourself. Beyond all the BMX garbage there are more important things. Your family loves and needs you.
G-Flash
Speechless!
Capt. Nemo
Let me say that as one of my childhood heroes, it hurts and disappoints me to hear this news. It's never fun to hear about fallen heroes, no matter who they are.

As someone who has never had to deal with some one with a dependancy problem, maybe my opinion isn't as educated as it could be, but...

I simply can't understand why so many people, with so much to lose, chose to continue to destroy their life and continue to hurt the ones closest to them. It's a selfish act. Pure and simple. You can give me the arguement about how drug addiction is a hard battle to win, but it isn't like no one has ever beaten it. I'm a firm believer that anyone who tuely wants to overcome any obstacle, can achieve their goal. Whether it be through prayer, the help of loved ones, or sheer force of will.

Maybe when Scot get's to the point where there is no one around him to disappoint anymore, and all the people who truely love and care for him, simply give up, that may be the wake-up call he will need. That is if he is still around to hear it.

I wish the best for all the people around Scot, and consider him a lucky man to have so many people that care for him. I'm just sorry he is too blind to see them.
trees
I'm so sorry Jamie. Please take care of yourself, your children and your mother. You are in our prayers.

Scot, I hope and pray that you find piece and the help you need.
cbnbmxwv
Are we our brother's keeper?In a society that would largely answer no to that question,the real answer is yes.Many things happen from day to day.Some good,some bad.For the bad,we don't,nor should not have to accept or like the things that people do.However,we should not let that keep us from helping or loving one another.By our actions,God's love thru the person of Jesus Christ living thru us is what needs to be revealed to those that are seemingly hopeless.When one sees Christ in us, lives can change,forgiveness can be achieved and life can begin anew.I don't have all the answers to life's troubles,but we,as our brothers keeper should point the way to one who does...thru our actions...by exemplifieing the meaning of love.
Scot,Jamie and family...I have never met you,but you are in my prayers.To the rest of the oldschool family,you are too.
rick
Stay strong Jamie, you and your family are in our thoughts and prayers.
bmx-bandit
Elvis
quote:
Scot Britehaupt is back in jail.
G*d*mnit, g*d*mnit all to hell.

Sending positive vibes your way, Jamie.
Sknight88
Perhaps, that is the safest place for him right now.Hopefully, all those kids named in an earlier post will see the power and evil of drugs, and step foward to avoid them and carry on Scotts work. i dont think anyone but an addict can understand the feelings. It must be horrorable.
alano
I don't know what to say at this point. I just can't.
alano
I was just blown away by what I read this morning. Sad news indeed. But I will say this.

I lost a cousin to drugs. It was 1996. Leon had everything going for him until heroin took over his life and one day his strong heart just stopped beating. I remember that fateful morning somehwre in March 1996 when his grandmother (who is my mother's sister) calling me up and wailing on the phone. I was too stunned to say anything.

Jamie, I am not from the USA. I live in Singapore. Scot is like a living legend to me. I read about him while growing up in the BMX Magazines that we were able to get here. When Scot was in trouble the last time, I was prepared to write a letter to the powers that be that Scot was able to influence young BMXers even as far away as Singapore with what he has done for BMX. I am really, really sorry to hear about what happened to your mum as well as I know what it feels like to have a loved one who has cancer. Like you said, you have to be strong and I am pretty sure I speak on behalf of all the BMX guys down here that we are here for you, just as we were here for Scot.

Guys, I am at a loss for words but I just had to give my input in this situation. I am not familiar with the case this time as to why Scot ended up in jail again. I feel sorry for all who love him, who were there for him and stood by his side. Reilley said that he let lots of people down and I say that is true. It is because of that that I am now feeling very sad.

You and your family are in my prayers Jamie. Please accept these ramblings from a balding 38-year-old BMXer who right now is very sad. God bless you and your mother.

Alan
msalyers
scot,jaime and family...my prayers are with you.
mike
RADDEN37
Scot, Our Prayers are with you and your Family. This is where the BMX world Shines! No one knows where this thing called "BMX" would be without you. Stay strong, and we will see you soon.
76 Mongeese
I am sad to hear this. I have known a couple of people w/ drug addictions and it is relentless. The only case I saw the person cured was when they had a family praying for them and they put trust in the Lord Jesus Christ. Don't know where Scot stands although, I've read him referring to God and prayer so, hopefully he has a relationship w/ God. Not making excuses for Scot but we all fall short of the best God has for us. I'll keep you in my prayers Scot.
Mark 'Gonzo' Summers
If there was ever a PSA for staying away from drugs, this thread would be it.

I can't imagine how addicting drugs must be to throw away your family and friends multiple times.

God's speed Scot and Jamie.
Greg Hill
This sucks, it is not a surprise but it still sucks....

GH
Cash Matthews
Hi Mongeese:

Scot has been a Christian most of his life. When we were on tour together, we regularly discussed our upbringings in the Lutheran church, and where we stood with that. During Scot's latest release, we spoke regularly about the forgiveness through Christ, and how a positive relationship could help all of us with our issues.

All I know to do is to continue to pray for Scot and his family, and that Scot himself will seek God's will for his life. He needs some downtime to do that. There is a scripture that had significant influence in the outcome of my life. Many of us have "turning points". Mine came at a time in my 20's when I was lost and seeking a path for my life. It is found in the book of James (James 4:6): "God opposes the proud but gives grace to the humble".

I am not here to diagnose, condem, or criticize my friend Scot Alexander Breithaupt. I do hope that those who believe will pray for him.
Mike'Ultimate Sin of Bmx'Crehan
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gts340
I'm sorry to hear this news. It's really too bad. I think I'll remember this story when it comes time to talk to my children about drugs and addiction. It's a terrible thing.
JayBayMX
quote:
This sucks, it is not a surprise but it still sucks....
Ditto.
Jeff Utterback
Heavy sigh...
Nighthawk
I am going to try and put a positive light out here. This may be the best thing to happen to Scott.

After having spent several years of my life living with an alcoholic, seeing and knowing what it does, the lack of control, you either turn yourself around, or you end up in jail, or dead. Those are the only results. I also grew up with friends with addictions, Out of the 6 friends who were all in the same band with me, there are three left. I also lost one of my riding buddies to alcohol, and my best childhood friend ruined his life permanently due to drug use. The ones that are alive are so because when they hit their rock bottom, they didn't die. And they all seem to have to hit absolute rock bottom before they wake up.

I could tell that Scott wasn't "cured" and was still in trouble, you learn to know the words and attitudes, sometimes the overcompensation and enthusiasm, which masks the fact there are still problems and a lack of control, and he displayed that recently. I am at least glad that Scott's rock bottom won't result in losing his life, and I will see this as an opportunity for him to reach his rock bottom safely in a controlled environment, and have a chance to truly turn his life around.

It's sad and tragic, but I'd rather be alive in jail than dead and free. Scott, we all love you, you changed all of our lives. If I wasn't BMX'ing when I was a kid, I would have ended up in gangs or doing drugs, I have no doubt. We are all here and ready to return the favor, to help change yours, when you are ready.

We believe in you even when you don't, and we know this isn't 'who you really are'. Some of us understand that this is an illness, one you didn't ask for, and it's one you can't cure yourself of anymore than someone can cure themselves of cancer. No matter how hard you try or how badly you want to be rid of this, it's not enough, and it's not your fault. It doesn't mean you are weak or a failure. It's a tough battle. It's impressive that you've battled it this long and kept yourself alive, that in itself is a success to be proud of.

This race isn't over... you once said, "I will find a way to beat you"... so bring it on man, we're not giving up either.
Paul Springer
Sad & stunned...
Ramon a.k.a Beaner
quote:
As one of his friends and supporters I feel the obligation to tell the BMX community before the rumour mills starts and before all the nay-sayers jump in with the "I told you so."
So then Greg Hill is a naysayer? I don't think so. What rumors? He screwed up AGAIN.


quote:

I can't really say more than to ask the community to please withold judgement and keep the "mean" remarks to a minimum. It does nothing but makes us look judgemental when we do.

Rick, you are a noble person, but with all due respect this is bordering on the ridiculous. Judegemental? You've got to be kidding me, Scot was scamming us all along, but deep down inside I had this glimmer of hope...but you could tell by his words that he was playing everyone like a fiddle. To say any of us are being judgemental is offensive, I wrote a letter on behalf of Scot, boy, do you know how STUPID and taken advantage of I feel?

Jaime, I will send you my most positive thoughts and prayers for you and the kids to get through this, I feel very sad for you, especially after all that you have done and put up with.

Rick, you have your reasons for continuing to show support for Scot, have at it Champ, I'm done with Scot Breithaupt and everything "he did" for BMX.

"Fool me once, shame on you, fool me twice, shame on me."
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